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Amazement after finding sister he never knew he had after 70 years

LONG-LOST: Dawn Turner with half-brother Dave Pascoe

LONG-LOST: Dawn Turner with half-brother Dave Pascoe

A HARTLEPOOL man has spoken of his “utter amazement” at discovering a half-sister he never knew he had after almost 70 years.

Dave Pascoe met Dawn Turner for the first time in an emotional meeting in town after they tracked each other down via the internet.

Dave, 69, and Dawn, 77, share the same father, Clarence Pascoe - known as Jack - who has since passed away but the pair have different mothers and didn’t know each other even existed until recently.

Dave told the Mail: “I was totally amazed to be told after all these years that I had a half-sister.

“It knocked me sideways as I never, ever, expected it and had no inkling Dawn even existed.

“The news came as a total surprise - but a lovely surprise - and I’m just grateful that we have found each other.

“Of course you have regrets that we could have met each other earlier in life but it is just one of those things.

“It is fate that we met at all.”

The siblings never knew each other existed until Dawn, from Ashford, in Kent, started doing some family research on the internet back home.

That led her to discover she may have a long-lost half-brother who she never knew and never met before.

Meanwhile, up in Hartlepool a friend of Dave’s, who works as a professional heir hunter, happened to come across a message from Dawn on an internet site while he was looking for somebody else through work.

It read that Dawn Turner from Ashford, in Kent, was looking for David Pascoe, and that their father was Clarence J. Pascoe from North Tyneside while David’s mother was Sarah Annie Blake.

At this point Dave was told by his friend, who runs the look4people website, that he may have a long-lost half-sister and the 69-year-old said there was too many coincidences for it not to be true.

The pair then started exchanging letters back in December 2012 and finally met for the first time, in Hartlepool, recently.

Dave said: “We didn’t get too blubby but it was quite an emotional meeting.

“It is crazy to think if it wasn’t for somebody that I know in the business, who was looking for somebody else at the time, then it might not have happened.

“There was too much information, too many coincidences, for it not to be true.

“It was a real shock because so much time had elapsed,” added Dave who has a daughter, Sarah Pascoe, 40, living in Norwich.

Clarence Pascoe - who served in the Army with the Duke of Cornwall Light Infantry - was living in Cornwall which is where he met Dawn’s mum Audrey Lanyon, the pair growing up together.

When Clarence joined the army in 1936, Audrey left Cornwall and moved to live with her mother in London, and Dawn was born.

In 1939 the Second World War broke out and the pair lost contact, with Clarence moving away and eventually marrying and having a son - Dave - with Sarah Blake in North Tyneside in 1945.

Dave is convinced his mum knew nothing about his dad’s previous relationship nine years before or Dawn and that is dad had kept it from her, adding it was a sign of the times.

Clarence was awarded the MM (Military Medal) for gallantry in North Africa during the war and was presented with the medal at Buckingham Palace by King George VI. Clarence passed away in 1975, in North Shields, after a heart attack, he was in his early 60’s.

Dawn only met her dad, who worked in a factory in later life, twice when she was very young and wanted to learn more about her family. Therefore, Dawn’s neighbour carried out internet searches on her behalf and started by looking to identify where Clarence was buried.

It was during a contact with the Army records office that Dawn discovered her dad had a son - Dave - and the search then moved on to trying to locate her half-brother.

Dawn, a retired accounts typist who is married to Mike, 82, said: “It came totally out of the blue, I was only trying to find where Jack was buried and then it led to this.

“It is such a strange feeling before you meet up because you might not like that person but it has been lovely to meet Dave.

“We have plenty of catching up to do.”

The pair spent a couple of days in Hartlepool before heading back home to Kent and they all plan to stay in touch.

Dave, a professional buyer, added: “It has taken us this long to find each other.

“We intend to meet up regularly, this isn’t a fleeting relationship and I am going to hang on to this because it is so precious - to discover a half-sister you never knew you had is incredible.

“I think the world of her already.”

 

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